My Paternal Grandparents, Malcolm and Kathleen Davis – Chapter IV

Remembering my Grandparents at Ashford

The manager of a plantation had a great responsibility and that was to supervise all agricultural operations. The manager was responsible for all hiring and dismissals. In addition he was often a J.P. (Justice of the Peace) and would witness documents for labourers. His comfortable lifestyle of a “Country Gentleman” was contrasted by his lack of cash. Even though I was a little boy I was fascinated by the fact that the plantation managers often lived in mansions, with a cook, maid and other staff, but were usually quite poor in terms of income and possessions.

Kathleen made a little extra money by keeping chickens. She always had fresh eggs. One day one of the hens swallowed a large fortyleg (fast running centipede.) Once the fortyleg hit the crop it sliced through the skin to freedom. When I told Granny she was not phased. She just picked up a needle and thread. She caught the hen and stitched up the crop. I addition to keeping chickens, granny made butter. This butter was not salted and it was almost white. It was put into 16 ounce glass jars, usually recycled jam jars.

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Amy Kathleen Davis, my grandmother.

Malcolm drove a very old car which he often had to crank to get it started! The crank would be inserted in front near the radiator grill, and he would get hot and sweaty turning the engine. This reminded me of my clockwork toys which had to be wound to run! Malcolm was easy going and drove slowly. In contrast, my grandmother, Kathleen was always saying,
“Step on the gas, M!”

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Malcolm and Kathleen with automobile, possibly at beach house

Grandad used to make the best hot buttered toast I have ever eaten. He served the first breakfast, called “tea”, at the crack of dawn. I recall being shocked that a man, especially a Planter, would prepare food in a kitchen! Malcolm would slice the bread and put it into a pop-up toaster. He would butter the hot toast with Kathleen’s fresh butter. Malcolm would boil a kettle of water and steep a few teaspoons of loose tea in a china tea pot. It was then strained into cups. The milk we added was from the plantation.

After this simple hot English style tea and toast, I loved to accompany Grandad to supervise the milking and feeding of the cows. After this was done, we had a heavier breakfast around 10 am or 11 am. This was more like lunch, but it was called breakfast by the Planters. The word “brunch” was never used.

Later in the day, my big brother Anthony and I used to ride on the donkey cart that collected the aromatic cut sour grass for the cows. This was a coarse grass, bothriochloa pertusa, that covered much of the land that was not suitable for sugarcane.

Pat Every (nee Rogers) says that Malcolm always kept a fresh set of hot peppers soaked in wine next to his plate. He applied it liberally. My parents (Herbert and Marjorie) also did this. They had a small crystal bottle that was filled with small round “Bird Peppers” that were covered with Sherry

According to Anthony, Grandaddy was recognized as an excellent planter, and his plantation was always scrupulously neat. I do recall that the place was tidy.

Huge Bullmastiffs roamed the yard, including a mature motherly female called Jill. As soon as a dog left a pile a worker would throw white lime on it and scrape it up with a shovel. Flies were a problem, so animal droppings were dealt with quickly. Anthony, I and Mrs. Elliot’s grandchildren would “bury” Jill in the sandpit. She loved the attention and would stay quite still as he was buried. At some point Jill would flex her powerful frame, rise effortlessly to her feet, and walk off, slowly wagging her tail.

Miami, Florida, c. 1970. Author’s daughters Michelle and Laura with Aji, our small Bullmastiff, reminiscent of Jill. Our black Labrador is on the right, watching her litter.

Jill loved children, but she and her fellow canines were not pets, they were protectors. During the day, labourers could freely walk through the yard and the dogs would not interfere. After sunset, these same dogs changed their personalities and became aggressive towards all but close friends.

My family would often go to Cattlewash on the East Coast, and sometimes my grandparents were there. The sea there is deadly and I was terrified of it. After the sugarcane was harvested, Malcolm and Kathleen would also have time to visit that coast. Grandad would lift me up, put me on his hip and wade into the rough sea. Unfortunately this grandfather was not very tall and the waves would pass over my head. This made me more afraid, and I avoided the beach. My parents were amused that I would not go near the sea!

It is amusing to note that I did not learn to swim until I was about eleven. I started snorkeling at that time, and my mother thought it was dangerous for me to be diving while not being able to swim! She sent me for swimming lessons!

Next: Life at Bushy Park

Herbert Davis, 1923 – 1996 Chapter VIII

Funeral and Obituary

 

 

Anthony Davis, my elder brother, read our father’s eulogy.

 

Firstly, I should like to thank the many people who have reached out in sympathy to our family and especially those who have been praying for us. We are really overwhelmed by the love shown and by the offers of help which have been extended to us at this time. It shows that my Dad touched many lives.

My father was a country boy at heart who grew up enjoying plantation life in the parish of St Andrew. After studying at the Watson School and the Alleyne School, he boarded with his father’s family at Lands End so that he could further his education at Harrison College.

Herbert had intended to go on to Agricultural College, but he gave up his A Level studies to join the Bank of Commerce on April 1st 1941 at the age of 18.

Although my paternal grandparents had moved to St John, my Dad’s heart remained in St Andrew. Despite petrol rationing,he would beg a little gasoline from his father so that he could visit the Farmer family, his old neighbours at Walkers. He always called on a Sunday afternoon because their daughter, Marjorie, was always grateful for a lift to Codrington High School where she was a weekly boarder.

Incidentally, in 1948 he married that girl he used to drive to school. That union remained unbroken until last Saturday. My father leaves three sons, myself being the eldest with Ian and Ronnie my younger brothers. Ronnie has pursued a business career in Barbados, Ian is a professor in Florida and I practice as a consulting engineer in England.

Herbert’s banking career flourished as he gained from the experience of several training courses in Canada. By 1964 he had been promoted to branch manager and he was given the task of opening a new bank in St Vincent. Not only did he have to locate temporary premises and recruit staff, but he also went on to commission the construction of new purpose-built accommodation. To my father’s surprise, the St Vincent branch was soon singled out for honourable mention by the corporate headquarters of the Canadian Bank. My father’s skill at delegating responsibility ensured that the branch continued to be successful following his retirement in 1982 after 41 year’s service.

Despite his success in the banking arena, Herbert often dreamt of growing crops on a smallholding. Wherever he lived, his first priority was the planting of fruit trees. He enjoyed propagating plants from seed or cuttings and, after retirement, one of his pleasures was shelling peas harvested from his garden.

At different stages in his life, he enjoyed playing tennis, cricket, golf and bridge, but his first love was yachting. With the first money that he saved, my father bought a sailing dinghy. He became a proficient yachtsman, often sailing to the horizon in his small boat after a day’s work at the bank. Later on, he bought a local fishing boat and worked it for several years with the help of a fisherman from Fontabelle.

Herbert’s interest encompassed the design of boats and, after fashioning several models with his own hands, he built a full size power boat to his own design. In St Vincent he cut a suit of sails and set my mother the huge task of sewing them up.

His knowledge of the marine charts of the area and the reefs of the Grenadine Islands was second to none. Together we sailed from Barbados to St Vincent in a yacht called “Aurora” on a course determined by two landmarks which he sighted from the Careenage. (This was a trip of over 100 miles!)

Herbert founded the first Lion’s Club of St Vincent and served as Treasurer for over 15 years. It gave him great satisaction that, during this period, the St Vincent Lions built a spacious workshop for the blind. The hall above the workshop was the largest in St Vincent at the time and was used for parties and meetings. For his dedicated humanitarian services, Herbert was awarded the coveted title of Melvin Jones Fellow by the Lions Club International Foundation in 1991.

Before moving to St Vincent, Herbert served on the Fish Co-operative Board, the Barbados Marketing Corporation and the Housing Board. On his return to Barbados, he served three terms on the Housing Board under both the Barbados Labour Party and the Deocratic Labour Party. He also sat on the boards of the National Development Foundation and the Heart Foundation.

Upon retirement, he returned to his hobby of carpentry which was first sparked by his interest in boats. He enjoyed designing and making one off items, but soon lost interest when the work became repetitive.

He never lost his interest in managing money and applied his skills to household management, projecting expenditure, balancing the accounts and operating reserve funds for various eventualities. People who passed by the house noticed his silver grey hair as he reclined in his Berbice chair, but were probably unaware that his mind was always active, reading the National Geographic magazine, drawing house plans, playing cards, solving crosswords, tracing his family tree or managing business affairs for elderly relatives.

My father was a simple man who never cared about keeping up appearances. He believed in a loving God and cared deeply for his family.

Behind his serious face and reserved manner lay a dry sense of humour and a deep understanding of human nature. He often spoke his mind, but he never bore any malice. He was, however, not without his faults. He found it difficult to cope with stress and smoked heavily for most of his life.

He was aware of the damaging effects of smoking and sometimes stopped for months at a time. When he did finally quit on doctor’s orders, the damage had been done. His health was affected for many years, but he never dreamt that his weakened body would continue fighting for so long at the end.

He wanted me to warn all the young people here today never to start smoking, even as he had often warned me myself when I was a youngster.

Once again my family would like to thank you all for attending the funeral, especially those who have travelled from farbafield. We do not know how many have made a special trip to Barbados, but among them are Ernst DeFretas who is representing the St Vincent branch of CIBC, President Hadri Young of the Lion’s Club of St Vincent and Hallam and Angela Welch from Trinidad.

Herbert Davis, 1923 – 1996 Chapter VII

Retirement in Barbados

Grandpa Herbert holds our second daughter Laura in his lap

 

Bannatyne. Herbert with his mother. My aunt June is to their right.

Family at East Point

Joanna, Ian holding Peter, Kathy, Laura, Herbert, Michelle, Gladys and Madge

Herbert Davis, 1923 – 1996 Chapter IV

Young Family

Anthony was born on 11th March, 1949.

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Barbados, 1949. LR standing (back row): Malcolm, Kathleen, Herbert, Lawrence, two unknowns. Marjorie is seated with baby Anthony in her lap. Amy is leaning over her.

Ian arrived in October of 1951.

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Barbados, c. 1954: LR Herbert, Marjorie, Ian and Anthony

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Bohemia, Belleville, St Michael, Barbados. Marjorie and Herbert

I did not like to have my photograph taken, so I may have boycotted this one!

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Marjorie standing with Anthony, Ron and Herbert

 

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Clip from Barbados newspaper, probably the Advocate

Herbert and Marjorie played tennis at Hannays Plantation on Saturday afternoons. Herbert was good at sports but smoking was his undoing.

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Herbert, Ivan Beale (the host), obscured lady, Lynda, Marguerite Beale, two obscured persons and last Hilton Ward

 

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Brooklyn, New York, USA. LR Leo Davis (Herbert’s uncle), Herbert and two unknown gentlemen

 

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Brooklyn, New York. LR Ida, Ian, Marjorie, Herbert and Anthony

 

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Barbados picnic. LR Herbert, Ron, Malcolm, Elise? and Kathleen

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Barbados, Windermere. Herbert

 

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Canada. Herbert and Marjorie

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Quebec, Canada. Herbert and Marjorie.

Herbert Davis, 1923 – 1996 Chapter II

Boyhood

Herbert grew up on a plantation in St Andrew, Barbados. Even though his parents were not wealthy, he lived a privileged life and he never had to take care of himself. His father, Malcolm, had seen hardship as a young man. As an estate manager, Malcolm was cash poor but lived a comfortable life. In turn, Herbert was lucky that his food was cooked, his clothes were washed, and his shoes were brushed by maids. He never washed a dish or mowed a lawn. He spent his days exploring the hills of the Scotland District. He would ride a horse or a bicycle or just run where he wanted to go. Even when Herbert started working as an entry level bank clerk, his great aunts looked after him. Money was always scarce, but he was always catered to.

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Herbert remembered riding bareback with his younger cousin Clinton Gill, b. 1929. (Clinton was a nephew of F. F. C. Fitz Gill.) They would ride to Cherry Tree Hill, where he recalls a Mr. Cuke being in charge. He remembers running up and down the grand mahogany stairway. Dad was almost six foot tall but as a young man he was under a hundred and thirty pounds. As a youth he said most of his weight was in his legs which were very muscular.

Herbert’s dislike of firearms stemmed from an early incident with his father, Malcolm. In the old days, windows had no insect screens. Most people slept under mosquito nets which were suspended over the beds. Malcolm lived in a rural area and felt that he should be able to protect his family. He slept with a loaded semi-automatic pistol under his pillow.

One night Herbert felt scared and went to his father’s bedside. He lifted his hands and put them on his Dad’s mosquito net. Malcolm awoke. The shadow of Herbert’s raised hands and body caused Malcom to think that there was a tall intruder over his bed. Malcolm jammed the muzzle of the pistol into Herbert’s abdomen.

“Who goes there?” Malcolm shouted with great emotion. I imagine that the pistol was ready to fire and that his finger was on the trigger.

Herbert identified himself. Even though the danger subsided, young Herbert never forgot.

Herbert Davis, 1923 – 1996 Chapter I

My late Dad’s birthday is soon approaching, and I thought it would be a good time to publish a memorial to him. I am starting by sharing the earliest photos I have of him. I would be grateful for any additional information on the photos.

Early Life at River, St Andrew, Barbados

Clarence Fitzherbert McCarthy Davis, my father, was born in Barbados on the 25th of October, 1923. His parents were Malcolm McCarthy Davis and (Amy) Kathleen Harding. I think Malcolm was the manager of River Plantation, and Kathleen was a housewife, or home maker. Below is the earliest photo I have of Herbert.

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Barbados, c. 1923: Kathleen, baby Herbert and Malcolm

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Barbados, c. 1926. LR: Malcolm, toddler Herbert and Kathleen

The exact location of the photos above and below are unknown, but the hills in the background suggest the Scotland District. I have a note indicating it was River Plantation, St Andrew which was affiliated with Bawdens, mentioned later. This makes sense as Herbert’s younger brother, Harold, was born at River on 31st July 1926.

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River Plantation, c. 1926. LR: Standing: Unidentified couple, Kathleen, Malcolm, Rita, Harry Ward and wife Edith   Seated: Gladys, Dibbon (holding Herbert), … Rita, Gladys and Dibbon are Malcolm’s sisters. Edith is Kathleen’s sister.

The photograph below may have been taken at Bawden’s Plantation in St Andrew, Barbados. It will be of interest to my Gill and Harding relatives, as the caption identifies Kiturah who was a Gill as well as a few Hardings. Herbert is the toddler (babe-in-arms) held by Ermine Banfield. Ermine was my first cousin, twice removed.

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Standing:  Malcolm and Kathleen Davis (Herbert’s parents), Kiturah (nee Gill, Malcolm’s mother),  baby Herbert Davis, Ermine Banfield (dau of Elliot), Rita and Gladys Davis (Malcolm’s sisters), Lolita Davis (unknown), Edgar Welch (married Rita), Dibbon Davis (Malcolm’s sister), Leslie Harding (Kathleen’s brother), Robert Fitzherbert Davis (Malcolm’s father), Clarence Harding (Kathleen’s father)

Sitting: Edith Harding and Elise Ward (Kathleen’s sisters), _____ Bynoe, Lucy Harding and Mildred Harding (almost entirely hidden), Mary Harding, Marguerite Harding (last 3 probably all Leslie’s daughters) and Grace Harding (behind, probably Leslie’s wife, nee Bynoe)

Photo taken by Bob Ward at (I guess) Bawdens and River Plantation, St. Andrew, Barbados. My notes suggest that Bawdens was purchased by  F. F. C. (Fitz) Gill on June 22, 1917 for £13,000! Fitz Gill was Granny Kathleen’s uncle.

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Back row: Hilton Seale, boy of 13?, old man 65+, middle aged man, Malcolm Davis (about 40?), old man (dark tan) planter? 65+, middle aged man

Front row: Doris Seale, Herbert in lap, with two other small children, unknown 35? yr old lady with child in lap, Amy Kathleen (nee Harding) Davis, Sylvia Streat 40, husband Gordon Harding?

I am going to stick an extra photo here. It is hard to believe that my grandfather once had hair! Can anyone identify the house?

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Barbados, c. 1926: Malcolm holding Herbert

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Anthony Davis (1949-2009) Chapter V

Cambridge University

Anthony was a Barbados Scholar and was accepted by Cambridge University in England to study Civil Engineering. He attended Churchill College. As boys, we were always rowing small boats, and at Cambridge he took up rowing competitively.

Around this time he met and fell in love with Sarah Warsap. They were soon married.

After graduating with honours, Anthony secured employment with a Civil Engineering partnership in London, England.

He and Sarah soon had two sons. I believe that at this time he was a deacon in the local Church of England. Since birth, he had always been the good son.

 

 

 

Anthony Davis (1949-2009) Chapter IV

St. Vincent

Our father, Herbert, had a wooden sailboat called Aurora. I think it was about twenty seven feet long. When Herbert was tasked with opening a new branch of the Canadian Imperial Bank of Commerce in St. Vincent, he was not going to leave his boat in Barbados!

Sailing from Barbados to St. Vincent in 1964

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Circa 1964 – Aurora entering Careenage, Bridgetown, Barbados

The above shows Aurora entering the Careenage, Bridgetown. Herbert kept the boat at the Royal Barbados Yacht Club, as it was then known. The boat was brought to Bridgetown to do the required paperwork before leaving for St. Vincent.

St. Vincent was a hundred miles away across deep open ocean. Herbert made the trip navigating with a compass and a transistor radio!

I strongly desired to go on this adventure, but I was only thirteen and I had a habit of falling overboard!

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Circa 1964 – Careenage, Barbados: Anthony, Herbert and Harold Jones

At fifteen Anthony was chosen to crew. The others were Jacques Baldini, cousin Harold Jones and of course, Herbert.

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Circa 1964 – St. Vincent: Anthony, Jacques Baldini, Herbert in front of Harold Jones

 Life in St. Vincent

Most of our school days were spent at our grandparents’ home, Windermere, in St. John, Barbados. We did fly to St. Vincent for most vacations. There we had many friends and enjoyed the parties and the fishing.

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Anthony and the lush Vincentian vegetation

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“Tally Ho”, St. Vincent: Herbert, Ian, Marjorie, Ronnie and Anthony

Anthony Davis (1949-2009) Chapter I

Early Years

Anthony Herbert Davis was born in Barbados in 1949. I think he was born in a house with Lodge in the name just north of Bridgetown. Our family was Anglican, so infant baptism was mandated. Here is a photo of Anthony’s Christening.

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1949 Barbados: Malcolm, Kathleen, Marjorie with baby Anthony, Amy, Herbert, Laurence, Wendy Farmer and unknown gentleman

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Kathleen holding Anthony and Malcolm

 

 

I have no idea where the following three photos were taken.

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Ian and Anthony

 

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Herbert, Marjorie, Ian and Anthony

 

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Barbados: Marjorie and Anthony

 

I believe this was taken at Constant, Belleville, St. Michael, Barbados. I recall a barber visiting us. He was a Cheeseman, and he was known as Dummy because he was unable to speak.

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Anthony, Herbert, Ian and barber

 

This is probably Constant, Belleville again. Anthony appears to be feeding Ian.

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Ian and Anthony

 

Here is Anthony holding baby Ronnie.

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Ian and Anthony holding Ronnie

 

Marjorie Davis (1927-2010) Chapter IV

Marjorie’s Family Years in Barbados

My recollections of my parents start in Belleville, where we lived on the 10th avenue. We first lived at “Constant”, a two story wooden home. Then we moved to “Bohemia”, which was close to George Street. Below Marjorie and Herbert in the backyard of Bohemia. The concrete wall runs along 10th Avenue. Behind the wall are towering palms. We called them Cabbage Palms, but their scientific name is Roystonea oleracea. They bore a “broom” which was used by our maid.

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Bohemia, Belleville: Marjorie and Herbert

 

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Marjorie with Anthony

 

 

We were close to Bridgetown, and I recall my father coming home for lunch!

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Bohemia, Belleville, St. Michael, Barbados: Marjorie and Herbert with Anthony and Ronnie. Our Julie mango tree is in the background.

Here is an extended family photo taken in Barbados.

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Malcolm, can’t recognize the next two, Kathleen, Teddy Jones, Marjorie

 

Laurence’s sisters were Helen Farmer, Katy  Jones and May Marshall. Teddy and Katy’s daughter Audrey was married to Louis Seale.

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Marjorie, two I don’t recognise, Dorothy May, Laurence, Helen, Katy and son Harold Jones, Mona Watson?, May Marshall with sons John Anthony and David, Maureen, and in the foreground Louis Seale.

 

This is a nice photo of my mother, but I don’t know the story behind it.

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Marjorie Davis

As a condition of his employment at the Canadian Imperial Bank of Commerce, Herbert had to take a “long leave” every few years. The only stipulation that he was to head north to Canada or the US. My parents used to say with Dad’s uncle Leo in Brooklyn, New York. Leo’s wife Ida is on the left below.

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New York, USA: Ida Davis, Ian, Marjorie, Herbert and Anthony

Here is another unknown photo.

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Marjorie with infant

I am going to take a wild guess and say that the photo below was taken at Plymouth, Crane, St. Philip.

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Barbados: Marjorie, Ronnie and Ian

The photo below was probably taken on the south coast of Barbados. Marjorie is with her nieces, George’s girls.

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Herbert was transferred to the nearby island of St. Vincent. Herbert had a sailboat, “Aurora.” I believe this group is seeing him off.

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Careenage, Bridgetown: Ronnie, Christine, Marjorie and Herve inspecting the water

Below is a family reunion at Windermere, St. John, Barbados. Herbert, Marjorie and Ronnie would be visiting from St. Vincent.

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Windermere: Back row: Pat, Sarah, Ronnie, Kathleen, Herbert, Marjorie, Laurence, George Front row: Anthony, Ann, Penny, Amy and Alison

Next: St. Vincent